EFT and Sex Webcast

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Pushing Your Abundance Away!

Here is a quote from one of the teachers of abundance I follow

" When you find yourself critical of the way anyone has attracted or is
using money, you are pushing money away from yourself. But when you
realize that what others do with money has nothing to do with you, and
that your primary work is to think and speak and do what feels good to
you"

Just recently I began playing an online abundance game with some friends.The investment is minimal and the return is phenomenal. I am so excited when I see what is happening every day with the little seed I planted and it raises my vibration. As a result my practice continues to grow, my products are selling well, and money is flowing to me from many areas.

I began to talk to people about what I was doing and invited some to participate. I especially wanted to help those that really need it in this economic climate. The reactions I got have been so interesting that it's been a game in and of itself to see if I can predict who will say what.

Here are some examples of responses:

1. "That's all fine but what is the intention behind making all this money" What she was saying was that unless you have a valid, hi-spirited intention behind making the money it's tainted. My intention is to make money and continue to open up all channels known and unknown for my wealth and prosperity. Pure and simple. I've said this before but I'll say it again, money is not inherently good or evil. You are responsible for how you use it and the more judgements you have on it and how others are making it the more you limit yourself and your attraction factor.

2. "I am not interested in making lots of money right now" Oh my G-d! I wanted to scream be careful what you put out there into the Universe will you.

3. "It seems too good to be true. Surely it's a scam" This is one that I hear the most often. Ask yourself a moment what message you are vibrating when you say that- money can't flow easily to me, money has to be attained by the sweat of my labor and hard work. I am guilty of having that one until just recently. This was my one big remaining barrier to overwhelming success and wealth. I tapped on it and released it and this venture among others feels like evidence that I finally did shift it.

What are your beliefs around wealth? Do you believe that money can come out of thin air? That is can indeed grow on trees. How many times a day are you judging wealth people, wealth corporations, organizations, etc? Or are your blocks just the opposite? Do you think you can sit on your couch all day and that you'll win the ClearingHouse Sweepstakes some day. The key with all of this is to achieve a viable balance where on one hand you are "acting/doing" enough for your conscious mind to believe you are going to succeed while you allow enough magic to allow for all possibilities of wealth creating to manifest easily, joyfully, and with grace.

S-X and Intimacy Course Now Ready!

Are 6 months of work it's finally here. First video is yours for the asking. Enjoy!

Alina and Dr. Craig

Toxic Relationships!

I work with many people that feel that like victims in a relationship. Many feel trapped as a result. By building up their appreciation for themselves they can achieve a real sense of deserving and can then go on to live happier and more peacefully whether they decide to stay or leave. This is a great video clip which explains why it is so detrimental to remain a victim. The video presenter does have a bias for keeping couples together where as my goal is to remove all the toxicity, self-doubt, fear, anger, and sadness and then discover if there is love left or not. Enjoy!

Sexual Healing 101

There are 4 types of sexual dysfunction: sexual pain disorders, orgasmic disorders, sexual arousal disorders, and sexual desire disorders. Luckily EFT can heal most of these quickly and easily. What these conditions have in common is the bodies physical manifestation to a trauma(s) from the past or "rectifying" a painful situation in the present. I have seen unresolved childhood sexual abuse show up as excessive menstrual bleeding and pain, vaginal atrophy, endometriosis, migraines, fibroids, weight issues, infertility, backaches, etc.

Something I see regularly in my partice is sexual arousal dysfunction stemming from the emotional rollercoaster ride of a couple who is having difficulty getting pregnant. Just try to maintain a sexually heightened state during IVF, sperm counts, basal temp. gauging and sterile clinical analysis of the "problem" There are times when doctors see a drop in libido due to fluctuating hormones such as after a baby is born or during menopause but as an energy psychology practitioner I want to investigate what caused the dip in the first place. Could it be that the pressures of adding a new member of the family or the fear of entering cronehood be the real culprits?

The little blue pill might help with creating blood flow to cause an erection but it actually does nothing for desire. The largest most powerful sexual organ is between the ears not between your legs! Figuring out why you subconscious don't really want to make love to your partner is the first step in permanent healing of any problem in the bedroom.

Let's admit that we want great sex. One recent study showed that the vast majority of adults rated their sex lives as the most important indicator of whether they were happy with their lives as a whole so get to it and clear any baggage that stands in the way of having an outrageous sex life!

The link above will take you to the 90 min radio interview I did with my partner on this topic. Enjoy!

EFT and S-E-X with Alina and Dr. Craig

Women and Men in Bed

More on the topic of male-female energy in bed. Women have the ability to use both sides of their brain at once. The way our brains are wired we can not only feel emotions but we can use the language centers in our heads simultaneously. Men can't!

It would stand to reason then that men have a more challenging time connecting their two heads and their heart. Most men learned sex alone in the privacy of their own rooms with nothing more than a book, video, or magazine to get them aroused. No one was there saying, "I love you. I adore you. You fill my heart with joy." One interesting side note is that I have worked with serveral premature ejaculators who had the same traumatic memory of being walked-in on by mom or someone else. The feeling of "gotta hurry it up now or someone might catch you" was buried in their psyches.

Most women, who are naturally predisposed to connecting with others on an emotional level, see sex as a natural outcome of love. The rush of hormones that happen during sex makes a woman more chemically bonded to a man she has slept with and that is why for most a break up can be akin to an addictive withdrawal. Ouch!

Just recently I was teaching a MateMagic class when this topic came up. In all the clients I have seen and all the stories (nothing shocks me anymore) involving sexuality not once have I heard the following,"Gee, I wish I had jumped into bed faster with that guy!" however I do routinely heard,"Why did I let it get physical so early on?"

Tapping through your inability to wait to sleep with someone can really be helpful. Sit with the question of, "Why wouldn't I want to wait?" For most it's fear. Fear that the other person might not wait, that they'll think I am a prude, that they'll stop trying,etc. Your real mate is going to wait no matter how long.

A woman can be patient as well with the man she choses as her partner when it comes to his lack of heart-penis connection. Understanding that he was originally wired differently and gently guiding him by expressing your feelings can allow him the possiblity to be able to do the same. Read some David Deida together is also a good place to start his education.

The Sky Is Falling, The Sky Is Falling!

Is this Wall Street trader really using EFT? He should be and so should you! I have heard all kinds of stories of doom and gloom in the last few weeks from places that I normally wouldn't expect that kind of hyperbole. While many buck up and hunker down I have plenty of clients, friends, and acquaintances that are doing better than ever. One common thread amongst those that are really doing great is that they are following their bliss however that might look.

If indeed there is such a thing as a paradigm shift happening that will culminate in something radically different in 2010 then why not take a chance now and begin to lay the foundation to transition to work that feeds you energetically as this will certainly lead to your material needs being taken care of as well. Always wanted to paint? What are you waiting for? Always wanted to sit down and write the great American novel? Do it!

It's my belief that we each have an instrument to play in the great universal orchestra and that concert halls galore will open easily and effortlessly when you get clear about your intention and move confidently in the direction of your dreams all the while clearing those beliefs that stop you such as artists always struggle with money (really? I know plenty that are quite successful) or that's okay for other people are more (educated, street savvy, fill in the blank ) than me. For each example that you get there is someone who has proven your limitations wrong. A few minutes on the Internet will demonstrate otherwise.

For those that have already worked on self-imposed short comings and fear-based blocks using EFT I want to share another little tool that I have my abundance clients use - this little prayer by John Randolph Price. Say it while tapping every morning and see what shows up in your 3-D consensus reality. Enjoy!

I. God is lavish, unfailing Abundance, the rich omnipresent substance of the Universe. This all-providing Source of infinite prosperity is individualized as me -- the Reality of me.

2. I lift up my mind and heart to be aware, to understand, and to know that the Divine Presence I AM is the Source and Substance of all my good.

3. I am conscious of my Inner Presence as my lavish Abundance. I am conscious of the constant activity of infinite Prosperity. Therefore my consciousness is filled with the Light of Truth.

4. Through my consciousness of my God-Self, the Soul within, as my Source, I draw into my thinking and feeling nature the very substance of Spirit. This substance is my supply, thus my consciousness of the Presence of God within me is my supply.

5. Money is not my supply. No person, place or condition is my supply. My awareness, understanding and knowledge of the all-providing activity of the Divine within me is my supply. My consciousness of this Truth is unlimited, therefore, my supply is unlimited.

6. My inner supply instantly and constantly takes on form and experience according to my needs and desires, and as the Principle of Supply in action, it is impossible for me to have any needs or unfulfilled desires.

7. The Divine Consciousness that I am is forever expanding its true nature of Abundance. This is its responsibility, not mine. My only responsibility is to be aware of this Truth. Therefore, I am totally confident in letting go and letting God appear as the abundant all sufficiency in my life and affairs.

8. My consciousness of the Spirit within me as my unlimited Source is the Divine Power to restore the past, to make all things new, to lift me up to the High Road of abundant prosperity. This awareness, understanding and knowledge of Spirit appears as every visible form and experience that I could possibly desire.

9. When I am aware of the God-Self within me as my total fulfillment, I am totally fulfilled. I am now aware of this Truth. I have found the secret of life, and I relax in the knowledge that the Activity of Divine Abundance is eternally operating in my life. I simply have to be aware of the flow, the radiation, of that Creative Energy, which is continuously, easily and effortlessly pouring forth from my Divine Consciousness. I am now aware. I am now in the flow.

10. I keep my mind and thoughts off “this world” and I place my entire focus on God within as the only Cause of my prosperity. I acknowledge the Inner Presence as the only activity in my financial affairs, as the substance of all things visible. I place my faith in the Principle of Abundance in action within me.

Fun Science Sex Facts

There is more research on the topic of sex than ever and the results are quite illuminating!

Your blood pressure goes down and stays down before a stressful event if you have sex up to one week before the event.

Scientists for decades have debated why women have orgasms- only a few known species of female animals do. So say that it's because after a woman orgasms she is less likely to stand up thus not working against gravity in the semen's attempt to make it to the egg. Others say it has to do with the forceful muscle female contractions at the time of orgasm that actually draws up the semen further in towards the egg. Either way it's all about our genetic drive to procreate.

Sperm can actually make you happy, ladies! Semen is made up not only of proteins, enzymes, amino acids, cholesterol, sperm, and sugars but also a whole host of hormones. These hormones are a powerful cocktail of prolactin, estradiol, oxytocin, opioids, and testosterone which all have been shown to effect our joy factor! Without the resistance of a condom or female prophalatic all these hormones reach your bloodstream in a couple of hours and can cause you to experience feelings of emotional well-being.

Taking antidepressants isn't good for your love life. Drugs like Prozac, Zoloft, Paxil, and Lexapro are SSRIs which work by lessening impulsive behavior making you think you are more in control. Here's the problem - isn't crazy out-of-control emotional states seem feel like falling in love to you? The truth is that if you are on these drugs you are not as likely to send out signals to others and not see the subtle signs of attraction yourself. They have also been shown to inhibit your ability to orgasm or cause loss of libido. My tip: do a little EFT instead to get over your depression and get your love groove back on!

Warm feet, warm genitalia? In a study on orgasm done in the Netherlands men and women took turns placing their heads in a scanner (to observe brain functions) while their partners tried to bring them to climax. Less than half were able to. Researchers discovered that when they gave the subjects socks to wear during the experiment they immediately reached better results- over 80% reached orgasm!

These little gems are just a small sample of tasty tidbits in the fabulous book by Jean Pincott titled Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes? Bodies, Behavior, and Brains- The Science Behind Sex, Love, and Attraction.