Women and Men in Bed

More on the topic of male-female energy in bed. Women have the ability to use both sides of their brain at once. The way our brains are wired we can not only feel emotions but we can use the language centers in our heads simultaneously. Men can't!

It would stand to reason then that men have a more challenging time connecting their two heads and their heart. Most men learned sex alone in the privacy of their own rooms with nothing more than a book, video, or magazine to get them aroused. No one was there saying, "I love you. I adore you. You fill my heart with joy." One interesting side note is that I have worked with serveral premature ejaculators who had the same traumatic memory of being walked-in on by mom or someone else. The feeling of "gotta hurry it up now or someone might catch you" was buried in their psyches.

Most women, who are naturally predisposed to connecting with others on an emotional level, see sex as a natural outcome of love. The rush of hormones that happen during sex makes a woman more chemically bonded to a man she has slept with and that is why for most a break up can be akin to an addictive withdrawal. Ouch!

Just recently I was teaching a MateMagic class when this topic came up. In all the clients I have seen and all the stories (nothing shocks me anymore) involving sexuality not once have I heard the following,"Gee, I wish I had jumped into bed faster with that guy!" however I do routinely heard,"Why did I let it get physical so early on?"

Tapping through your inability to wait to sleep with someone can really be helpful. Sit with the question of, "Why wouldn't I want to wait?" For most it's fear. Fear that the other person might not wait, that they'll think I am a prude, that they'll stop trying,etc. Your real mate is going to wait no matter how long.

A woman can be patient as well with the man she choses as her partner when it comes to his lack of heart-penis connection. Understanding that he was originally wired differently and gently guiding him by expressing your feelings can allow him the possiblity to be able to do the same. Read some David Deida together is also a good place to start his education.

The Sky Is Falling, The Sky Is Falling!

Is this Wall Street trader really using EFT? He should be and so should you! I have heard all kinds of stories of doom and gloom in the last few weeks from places that I normally wouldn't expect that kind of hyperbole. While many buck up and hunker down I have plenty of clients, friends, and acquaintances that are doing better than ever. One common thread amongst those that are really doing great is that they are following their bliss however that might look.

If indeed there is such a thing as a paradigm shift happening that will culminate in something radically different in 2010 then why not take a chance now and begin to lay the foundation to transition to work that feeds you energetically as this will certainly lead to your material needs being taken care of as well. Always wanted to paint? What are you waiting for? Always wanted to sit down and write the great American novel? Do it!

It's my belief that we each have an instrument to play in the great universal orchestra and that concert halls galore will open easily and effortlessly when you get clear about your intention and move confidently in the direction of your dreams all the while clearing those beliefs that stop you such as artists always struggle with money (really? I know plenty that are quite successful) or that's okay for other people are more (educated, street savvy, fill in the blank ) than me. For each example that you get there is someone who has proven your limitations wrong. A few minutes on the Internet will demonstrate otherwise.

For those that have already worked on self-imposed short comings and fear-based blocks using EFT I want to share another little tool that I have my abundance clients use - this little prayer by John Randolph Price. Say it while tapping every morning and see what shows up in your 3-D consensus reality. Enjoy!

I. God is lavish, unfailing Abundance, the rich omnipresent substance of the Universe. This all-providing Source of infinite prosperity is individualized as me -- the Reality of me.

2. I lift up my mind and heart to be aware, to understand, and to know that the Divine Presence I AM is the Source and Substance of all my good.

3. I am conscious of my Inner Presence as my lavish Abundance. I am conscious of the constant activity of infinite Prosperity. Therefore my consciousness is filled with the Light of Truth.

4. Through my consciousness of my God-Self, the Soul within, as my Source, I draw into my thinking and feeling nature the very substance of Spirit. This substance is my supply, thus my consciousness of the Presence of God within me is my supply.

5. Money is not my supply. No person, place or condition is my supply. My awareness, understanding and knowledge of the all-providing activity of the Divine within me is my supply. My consciousness of this Truth is unlimited, therefore, my supply is unlimited.

6. My inner supply instantly and constantly takes on form and experience according to my needs and desires, and as the Principle of Supply in action, it is impossible for me to have any needs or unfulfilled desires.

7. The Divine Consciousness that I am is forever expanding its true nature of Abundance. This is its responsibility, not mine. My only responsibility is to be aware of this Truth. Therefore, I am totally confident in letting go and letting God appear as the abundant all sufficiency in my life and affairs.

8. My consciousness of the Spirit within me as my unlimited Source is the Divine Power to restore the past, to make all things new, to lift me up to the High Road of abundant prosperity. This awareness, understanding and knowledge of Spirit appears as every visible form and experience that I could possibly desire.

9. When I am aware of the God-Self within me as my total fulfillment, I am totally fulfilled. I am now aware of this Truth. I have found the secret of life, and I relax in the knowledge that the Activity of Divine Abundance is eternally operating in my life. I simply have to be aware of the flow, the radiation, of that Creative Energy, which is continuously, easily and effortlessly pouring forth from my Divine Consciousness. I am now aware. I am now in the flow.

10. I keep my mind and thoughts off “this world” and I place my entire focus on God within as the only Cause of my prosperity. I acknowledge the Inner Presence as the only activity in my financial affairs, as the substance of all things visible. I place my faith in the Principle of Abundance in action within me.